Transformation & Healing: How to Reign When it's Raining®
Welcome to How to Reign When it’s Raining—the podcast for people who refuse to let life’s hardest moments define them.
We’re Abi and Dolina, a mumma daughter duo bringing you raw, real conversations about resilience, healing and stepping into your full potential.
If you’ve ever felt held back by self-doubt or past experiences but know you’re meant for more, you’re in the right place. We’re here to help you break through fear, rewire your mindset and build confidence - because transformation starts from within.
With expertise in mindset coaching, hypnotherapy, NLP and personal growth, we share proven strategies to overcome limiting beliefs, shift your energy and take control of your future. You’ll also hear inspiring stories from people who’ve rebuilt their lives after adversity - proof that no matter what you’ve been through, you are not stuck where you are.
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Transformation & Healing: How to Reign When it's Raining®
From Adversity to Success: Bibi Roy's Bold Transformation
In this week's guest episode, we talk to Bibi Roy about her inspiring journey overcoming racism, bullying and an abusive relationship to reach her current position working alongside Michelin-starred chef Atul Kochhar. Bibi shares raw insights on resilience, taking bold risks and pursuing unexpected rewards. She discusses her experiences with dyslexia, her careers in banking and hospitality, her struggles with breast cancer and her confrontations with both societal prejudices and personal challenges. Join us for an inspiring story of determination, insights, practical advice and emotional moments that demostrate how resilience can help anyone transform life's challenges into strengths.
- 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
- 02:45 Bibi's Early Life and Upbringing
- 03:56 Challenges and Discoveries in Education
- 07:04 Pursuing a Career in Banking
- 08:46 Marriage and Moving to London
- 12:36 Transition to Writing and Hospitality
- 14:32 Overcoming Personal Struggles
- 18:13 Finding Confidence and Success
- 30:51 The Healing Power of Music
- 31:19 Support Systems and Personal Coping Mechanisms
- 32:51 Facing Health Challenges: A Personal Story
- 35:09 Resilience and Recovery
- 42:30 Life as a Food Critic
- 44:09 Working with Atul Kochhar
- 46:24 Cultural Experiences and Language Barriers
- 53:36 Overcoming Personal Struggles
- 01:00:05 Key Takeaways and Final Thoughts
Connect with Bibi: https://www.instagram.com/bibiroy?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
Visit Atul's restaurants: https://atulkochhar.com/
Homework for this week:
Practicing asking for what you want can be a transformative exercise for both your personal and professional life. It’s about shifting from a place of hesitation or fear to a mindset of clarity and self-assurance. Reflect on areas in your life where you hesitate to ask for what you want. Begin with smaller requests to build your confidence. When you find yourself hesitating, take a moment to reflect on what’s holding you back. Is it fear of rejection? Lack of self-worth? Are you worried about how others might perceive you? Understanding the root cause can help you address these underlying emotions. Be specific and clear about what you want and mentally prepare yourself for both outcomes. Know that asking for what you want is an act of self-respect, regardless of the response. Being comfortable with both possibilities helps you avoid anxiety and be more present in the moment.
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