Transformation & Healing: How to Reign When it's Raining®
Welcome to How to Reign When it’s Raining—the podcast for people who refuse to let life’s hardest moments define them.
We’re Abi and Dolina, a mumma daughter duo bringing you raw, real conversations about resilience, healing and stepping into your full potential.
If you’ve ever felt held back by self-doubt or past experiences but know you’re meant for more, you’re in the right place. We’re here to help you break through fear, rewire your mindset and build confidence - because transformation starts from within.
With expertise in mindset coaching, hypnotherapy, NLP and personal growth, we share proven strategies to overcome limiting beliefs, shift your energy and take control of your future. You’ll also hear inspiring stories from people who’ve rebuilt their lives after adversity - proof that no matter what you’ve been through, you are not stuck where you are.
Join us every week to fuel your mindset, find clarity and take bold action towards the life you actually want.
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Transformation & Healing: How to Reign When it's Raining®
You Don’t Need to Be Perfect to Be Powerful. How to Build Self-Trust & Silence Your Inner Critic.
In our latest episode of How to Reign When it’s Raining, Mum and I (Dolina and Abi) share personal stories, powerful mindset shifts and practical strategies to help you silence your inner critic and take bold action towards the life you really want. Learn why perfectionism holds you back, how to reframe self-doubt and why taking messy action builds real confidence. We also introduce our FREE Reignmaker Reflection Journal - designed to reconnect you with your most powerful self (link below!).
🎯 In This Episode:
- How to write a Breakup Letter to your inner critic
- Why courage must come before confidence
- How to detach from outcomes and trust your journey
- How to reframe negative self-talk into powerful affirmations
- Reflection prompt to help you stop playing small and start living boldly.
- 00:00 Introduction to the Reignmaker Reflection Journal
- 00:41 Silencing the Inner Critic
- 01:37 Naming Your Inner Critic
- 02:39 Role-Playing to Reframe Negative Thoughts
- 03:14 The Power of Words and Self-Trust
- 03:43 Choosing Progress Over Perfection
- 05:51 Building Confidence Through Action
- 07:02 Personal Stories of Transformation
- 08:06 The Impact of the Podcast
- 11:58 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Change
- 16:06 Practical Techniques to Silence the Inner Critic
- 21:45 Focusing on the Present and Detaching from Outcomes
- 24:41 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Resources & Next Steps:
- Download the FREE Reignmaker Reflection Journal here: https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/777042/152556617813984730/share
- Write a Breakup Letter to your inner critic.
- Answer This Reflection Question:
➔ What does my future self no longer tolerate?
Bonus Challenge:- Reframe one negative thought today using the affirmations we shared.
- Example: From “I’m not ready” → “I’m ready even if it’s messy.”
💬 Let’s keep the conversation going!
If you're part of our Facebook group (How to Reign When It’s Raining), share your letters with us or let us know what you're no longer tolerating! Tag us @reignwhenitsraining and use the hashtag #reignmaker
We'd love to connect and hear how you’re finding ways to thrive. What are your dreams? What's holding you back? Questions? Stories? Ideas?
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